If you watched the film, The King’s Speech then you know… if you haven’t then you might want to tune into it.
The film also inspired me to not to hide my intuition, my sacred gifts, and my values. Sometimes, I get messages that address me as Dr. Halaj, I am not a doctor. When I am offering my help based on lived experiences where I saved lives I am asked whether I have a clinical registration. And the fact that I can save lives and the fact that I can do this without clinical registration are completely (dis)missed. Yes, I am a Trauma-Informed Coach Practitioner, and I can save lives.
So just like in the film, The King’s Speech, I practice the methods and approaches that empower others. In short, the King himself believed in the power of an effective and simple practice that healed his condition rooted in physiologically and psychologically disintegrated nervous and brain systems. And it makes total sense why music/sound waves allowed the muscles to relax resulting in more connected systems and fluid speech. And interestingly those with more and higher levels of education and clinical registration didn’t know about this method.
I have respect, gratitude, and appreciation towards those, who move ‘mountains’ for others and want to solve and help to solve, let that be physiologically, psychologically, neurologically, or metabolically-based impairments and challenges. I understand legal regulations and I also understand that legality doesn’t equal morality. More than ever we need to pay more attention to the documents that we sign and request what we are about to align with.
What does wronged or corrupted Self mean?
In short, corruption is when you trade one or more of your core values in exchange for something else. And when you understand this then you also understand how difficult it is to stay attuned with your healthy rhythm.
When we constantly look through the lenses to see the healthy, wise, and loving self. And the image of the self is already distorted. If you never studied your own mind, somatic experiences, and your emotional states. I urge you to do that.
Build a rapport with a practitioner. Someone who practices what they talk about and get connected but not just through the ether. Get interconnected with a practitioner who practices the methods that are being shared. As one person commented on my practice: ‘So you are not like a fat doctor who tells me to exercise more.’ No, I am not.
I practice what I teach
And I live and manifest the value of it. When I tell you to journal I also journal because I know and welcome its positive psychological and physiological effects.
It is not enough to say oh she or he has a ‘mental health decline or issue’. Raise the question and Whose responsibility is to resolve that? The answer is: it is hers, and it is his.
Learn to support your own healing experience. Be your own moral regulator if you like.
People around you unless they are, they are not qualified practitioners. I don’t know about your friends but mine as much as I love them, they are not trained for active listening, creating a safe space, and a non-judgmental environment. They can listen, advice, and be there for me, and they can make my days happier, etc.
When I need someone to help me shift a mindset, resolve a behavioral pattern, or make sure I am on track with everything that I set my intention for and can show up with my core values. I turn to a professional practitioner.
You were something else.
Lately, again, I concluded that working with a coach practitioner takes the association away from that there is something wrong with you. The journey is not about learning what is wrong with you. It is about seeing and showing up with your core values aligned with the natural true self. To learn to belong to your true self so you can find and see your worth, and love your natural self. Tap into your royal Higher self and lead your legacy.
‘The time will come when, with elation you will greet yourself arriving at your own door, in your own mirror and each will smile at the other’s welcome, and say, sit here. Eat.’ (Love after Love)
I wish you well on your healing journey